Earlier this year I wrote about forgiveness.Forgiveness gets a lot of brain time in forgiveness circles. Many believe that before we can move forward, we need to for give. That wasn’t the topic of my previous column.I didn’t write about our need to forgive others. Quite the opposite. In my humble opinion we don’t have the duty or obligation to forgive others. That end of forgiveness only bogs us down.If we are fretting about whether or not to forgive someone then we are ignoring our own need for growth – except in one critical circumstance which involves offering not only ...