S ome of us score our successes. It is a good thing to recognize the good stuff that happens in your life… no question.We should appreciate little victories. What about those stinging defeats along the way? I submit that you will learn a lot more from those setbacks than you ever learn from a so-called “win.”Setbacks set the stage for comebacks, but only if we learn from the defeat… only if we get better and not bitter about the outcome.Knowing the difference between them is the key. I learned the hard way. In 1977, I competed for and lost the ...