One of the toughest aspects of ongoing, persistent and long-term grief is the loss of human life.Not the life of the person who died, but other losses you never would have foreseen – but then again did you foresee that first loss? I didn’t think so.Grief begets loss. Over and over. It’s eye-opening, really. It brings about an intense sense of clarity. Life, relationships – everything – is fleeting. It is transient. It is sometimes no more than a mirage: something you thought was real, wasn’t ever even there in the first place.People you thought were your people turn away,