I had a bit of a eureka today. There are two groups of people in this world: those who have been thrust into the tsunami that is grief and those who hope to outrun the storm. Those of us in the eye of the hurricane struggle. We lament. We wail. Our lives have been forever changed and we hate it. We abhor it. Right now I am one of the haters. Never thought I’d say that, but there you go. I hate grief. I used to think that sat all on me. I used to think grief was my problem to deal with, to ...